I seriously think that it is not safe anymore to even breathe what more to utter any discomfort feelings in this office...sometimes out of sheer thinking out loud could lead to some misunderstanding among people who actually cannot make head or tail of what you are saying. because of that, you become a victim of people's misunderstanding , thus putting you in a very uncomfortable zone.
I learn that not all people think the way you do and some people are just crazy for position, to an extend that they make no heed about badmouthing so called friends, just to benefit from this...this i am very disappointed...
One more thing, please never query my ability in my work, my sincerity in teaching students, my close bond with my friends, to the extend that my seniority, my salary that i 100% believe i deserve, is questioned. i have been working for almost 23 years and i know who i am today is because i know what i am doing.
so keep you mouth shut and just let me do my work, and you yours...you will also be questioned later in the Hereafter.